The relationship between sexual and spiritual personality disorders
Author of the material: Tatiana Aster
This article was written in preparation for the XI Annual Summer Retreat 2025.
The energy of life, the energy of sexuality is also the energy of kundalini. It makes up the entire energy reserve of a person, is basic and nourishing for other psychic centres of a person. Distortion of the work of kundalini energy leads to distortion of the whole energy exchange with the world.
The energy of life, the energy of sexuality is also the energy of kundalini. It makes up the entire energy reserve of a person, is basic and nourishing for other psychic centres of a person. Distortion of the work of kundalini energy leads to distortion of the whole energy exchange with the world.
Tatiana Aster
Author and consultant in the field of social capital
introduction
During the "Freudian age", at 4-5 years of age, when the first sexual identity is formed against the background of the primary maturation of the hormonal system, a child learns to integrate his/her first sensual experiences into the overall picture of the perception of the world. A child's future libido creates a source of inner strength and the desire to recognise and live this strength through the most diverse picture of life states and impressions.
Between the ages of 1 and 5, the physical unpacking of the kundalini energy takes place. At this time a child learns to walk and learns all the basic physical functions of his/her body by developing them. He or she ceases to be an infant and becomes a child with a spectrum of abilities and capabilities being defined.
However, such an ideal picture is not formed in all representatives of mankind. A child, and later a teenager, at the age of up to 18 years, develops according to very subtle, fragile laws. These laws are based on the receipt of timely quality intimacy, on the successful gradual formation of gender roles, on the recognition of classmates and friends. Any slightest violation of these natural algorithms creates failures in the formation of future sexuality.
Between the ages of 1 and 5, the physical unpacking of the kundalini energy takes place. At this time a child learns to walk and learns all the basic physical functions of his/her body by developing them. He or she ceases to be an infant and becomes a child with a spectrum of abilities and capabilities being defined.
However, such an ideal picture is not formed in all representatives of mankind. A child, and later a teenager, at the age of up to 18 years, develops according to very subtle, fragile laws. These laws are based on the receipt of timely quality intimacy, on the successful gradual formation of gender roles, on the recognition of classmates and friends. Any slightest violation of these natural algorithms creates failures in the formation of future sexuality.
Almost any stress received before the age of 5 sets the stage for disrupting the formation of the kundalini energy channel.
There are generally three groups of sexual disorders. All these types of disorders are not clinical at the initial stage. But becoming chronic, they turn into profound clinical psychopathological pictures of the development of patients' psyche.
1. Hypersexuality.
2. Suppression of sexuality.
3. Displacement, or negative sublimation.
1. Hypersexuality.
2. Suppression of sexuality.
3. Displacement, or negative sublimation.
Here are the signs of manifestation of three groups of disorders.
I. Hypersexuality.
Withing a partner with uncontrolled kundalini release, there is a very strong emphasis on the sensual side of life.
He/she brightly emphasises his/her gender identity, tends to make and actively demonstrate his/her nude photos, is constantly actively making acquaintances, tends to have a very bright wardrobe and fashionable cars.
In communication it is characteristic to go directly to feelings and personal, intimate emotions, as well as a childish package of perception of the world, bypassing social norms. Social norms of intimacy are the step-by-step construction of safe intimacy based on complimentary roles, shared interests, and safe scripts that are organically embedded in other objective life tasks.
When we meet new people, it's not just our gender parts that we get to know, but primarily individuals who have their own set of quite human characteristics, interests, education, hobbies, and aspirations. But hypersexual people ignore the personality in others and in themselves, it is important to them that there is an emphasis on sexual relations.
In communication it is characteristic to go directly to feelings and personal, intimate emotions, as well as a childish package of perception of the world, bypassing social norms. Social norms of intimacy are the step-by-step construction of safe intimacy based on complimentary roles, shared interests, and safe scripts that are organically embedded in other objective life tasks.
When we meet new people, it's not just our gender parts that we get to know, but primarily individuals who have their own set of quite human characteristics, interests, education, hobbies, and aspirations. But hypersexual people ignore the personality in others and in themselves, it is important to them that there is an emphasis on sexual relations.
The sexual and sensual fire is very important as the inner deep fuel of life. Kundalini energy is the energy of life. It colours the world in joyful warm colours and creates moods of positivity and optimism. But if you are immediately taken by romantic feelings and in the first 3 months of communication we are already talking about personal, very close relationships and confessions, then you have fallen into the hands of a hypersexual partner. Burnout, exhaustion, abandonment and outbursts of rage and anger await you.
A partner with kundalini hyperstimulation will have sexual motives out of sync with social and moral values from the beginning. Such a relationship will negate any commitment in favour of feelings, any planning in favour of desires, and any agreements will be ignored in favour of spontaneous grandiose events. It is all the fault of the rebellious, powerful sexual energy gushing directly from the child libido of the age of 5, which has not been assimilated into the psyche in relation to the adolescent and adult parts of the psyche.
Hypersexual people are perpetual 5 year olds whose bodies are "bumped" by such surges of hormones that there simply won't be enough for a long distance stable relationship. One day a curious, horny, playful five-year-old just falls into the sandbox in dirty clothes and falls asleep there after long tears and caprices. The fact is that 5-year-old hypersexuality can not be satisfied and achieve in it such deep orgasms to move with a partner to a new level of social and marital intimacy.
A partner with kundalini hyperstimulation will have sexual motives out of sync with social and moral values from the beginning. Such a relationship will negate any commitment in favour of feelings, any planning in favour of desires, and any agreements will be ignored in favour of spontaneous grandiose events. It is all the fault of the rebellious, powerful sexual energy gushing directly from the child libido of the age of 5, which has not been assimilated into the psyche in relation to the adolescent and adult parts of the psyche.
Hypersexual people are perpetual 5 year olds whose bodies are "bumped" by such surges of hormones that there simply won't be enough for a long distance stable relationship. One day a curious, horny, playful five-year-old just falls into the sandbox in dirty clothes and falls asleep there after long tears and caprices. The fact is that 5-year-old hypersexuality can not be satisfied and achieve in it such deep orgasms to move with a partner to a new level of social and marital intimacy.
- The first sign is a very frank discussion of feelings in the first 3 months of dating.
- You will be imposed idealised feelings of love, surrounded by incredible aestheticisation and intensity of experience, which are directed at you personally.
- All hypersexual partners cheat, and there is nothing you can do about it without medical therapy. You need medication, a psychologist, and a sexologist. More than half of the partners on dating sites are hypersexual people who need to prove to themselves and others every day that they are a supernova star.
- The tendency to choose a partner with a victim type. A sacrificial partner is ready for humiliation, losses, devaluation, playing second roles, other partners and love triangles.
II. Suppressed sexuality.
- All overweight, underweight, bulimia, anorexia and all kinds of eating disorders have a fundamentally suppressed sexuality.
- Here too there is unemotional, monotonous, mechanical intimacy that is not filled with love.
- The tendency to choose an aggressor partner. More often than not, the aggressor partner is chosen to be of lower social status, meaning that he or she is either worse educated, physically handicapped, or generally has global physical and mental chronic illnesses that make him or her acrimonious, irritable, and constantly attacking, actively or passively.
Suppression of libido energy (kundalini) creates a huge tension in the body and psyche, which develops into depression. The presence of an aggressive partner gives an opportunity to get emotional and physical negative discharge through negative stimuli and stresses. At the same time the shortcomings of an aggressive partner have obvious objective reasons for some inferiority and deficiencies.
Most often suppressed sexuality arises because of chronic unrealisation not only in the sensual sphere, but in the psychological sense at the level of self-expression and at the level of creative self-presentation.
Sexually repressed partners with no resources can be completely alone for years, as they may not have the resources to attract an aggressor to rob and damage them.
The sexually repressed partner seeks psychological power through manipulation and appropriating the roles of the dominant parent, the kind carer, the knowledgeable person. The goal of this behaviour is to remove the aggressor partner's defences and to gain by any means possible child intimacy, so that it is guaranteed. Child intimacy is defenceless, innocent, simple and, when the defences are removed, it is readily available.
Most often suppressed sexuality arises because of chronic unrealisation not only in the sensual sphere, but in the psychological sense at the level of self-expression and at the level of creative self-presentation.
Sexually repressed partners with no resources can be completely alone for years, as they may not have the resources to attract an aggressor to rob and damage them.
The sexually repressed partner seeks psychological power through manipulation and appropriating the roles of the dominant parent, the kind carer, the knowledgeable person. The goal of this behaviour is to remove the aggressor partner's defences and to gain by any means possible child intimacy, so that it is guaranteed. Child intimacy is defenceless, innocent, simple and, when the defences are removed, it is readily available.
Healing of this developmental distortion is possible through cognitive-behavioural therapy, body therapy and healthy physical activity, diet and restoring daily routines.
Suppressed sexuality is most often caused by direct or indirect sexual abuse before the age of 14, including by a same-sex partner, peers and parents.The sense of pride in one's identity and belonging to one's gender and age is lost, there is no healthy self-esteem and a calm attitude towards oneself, self-esteem rises and falls.
III. Displaced sexuality.
- Dangerous hobbies and a fierce passion for sporting spectacles, races and games.
- Short multiple intimate liaisons.
- Liaisons with strangers.
- Great social and creative achievements against a background of neglecting one's health and well-being.
- Use of drugs and stimulant substances.
- Denial of the need for stable strong relationships and feelings of attachment.
Causes of displacement: excessive physiologicalisation of intimate life, pornography, too early puberty, self-satisfaction, experience of intimacy with people of the same sex, hormonal and age-related disorders, physical trauma, emotional immaturity, infantility.
Emphasis on finding a co-dependent partner who will accept with admiration, patience and willingness chronic mood swings, chronic "binges", declarations of love and hate, alternating with each other. Such a person needs a partner who, at the cost of his life, will share delusions, some anti-social activities and life-threatening events. For example, all terrorist sects are dominated by people with displaced sexuality.
Treatment of displaced libido energy (kundalini) is done through psychoanalysis, body therapy and dance therapy.
Displaced sexuality is a lateral distorted movement of kundalini energy. The energy goes into some lateral sub-personalities which turn out to be overdeveloped and hypertrophied. For example, it can be the role of the head of a sect or a destructive political current, the role of a misunderstood hero of something incomprehensible, the role of a son or husband, brought to delirium. In the case of women, it can be a lifeguard and good friend, which is characterised by marginal anti-social behaviour.
Emphasis on finding a co-dependent partner who will accept with admiration, patience and willingness chronic mood swings, chronic "binges", declarations of love and hate, alternating with each other. Such a person needs a partner who, at the cost of his life, will share delusions, some anti-social activities and life-threatening events. For example, all terrorist sects are dominated by people with displaced sexuality.
Treatment of displaced libido energy (kundalini) is done through psychoanalysis, body therapy and dance therapy.
Displaced sexuality is a lateral distorted movement of kundalini energy. The energy goes into some lateral sub-personalities which turn out to be overdeveloped and hypertrophied. For example, it can be the role of the head of a sect or a destructive political current, the role of a misunderstood hero of something incomprehensible, the role of a son or husband, brought to delirium. In the case of women, it can be a lifeguard and good friend, which is characterised by marginal anti-social behaviour.
Conclusion
All three types are unfortunately fixed on the careless expenditure and utilisation of libido energy (kundalini). The kundalini energy does not reach the level of the heart centre, and there is only the animal beginning in it, and no spiritual beginning. Normally, the formation of the kundalini force is completed only by the age of 22-24, and only then is this energy ready to connect with the heart centre.
If instead of raising the kundalini naturally, it is thwarted and directed to exit through the lower centres, its flow becomes pathological. Then it becomes a matter of therapy to straighten this flow and raise it upwards; it is difficult, long and requires great discipline.
During kundalini maturation, according to cosmic law, a person must remain virgin until his kundalini comes into contact with the heart centre, which means that the heart consciousness must also be opened and formed. The lower or lateral efflux of kundalini through earlier puberty causes this energy not to develop as a natural living beginning, and at the age of 42-48 it comes to exhaustion and lack of its power and quality for spiritualisation in the higher centres above the heart.
During kundalini maturation, according to cosmic law, a person must remain virgin until his kundalini comes into contact with the heart centre, which means that the heart consciousness must also be opened and formed. The lower or lateral efflux of kundalini through earlier puberty causes this energy not to develop as a natural living beginning, and at the age of 42-48 it comes to exhaustion and lack of its power and quality for spiritualisation in the higher centres above the heart.
All types of psychosexual disorders, obtained through distorted upbringing and early onset of intimate life, give a disturbed energy balance to the entire structure of the human body.
It is important to understand that partners with disorders attract partners with disorders and this creates an aggravation of their states on the couple, they are able to transmit to each other the programmes of violation of kundalini movement.
When the energy of the libido force reaches the heart and the connection of the heart's work programmes meets in the partnership, there is an alchemical multiplication of this energy in both partners, an increase in its vibrations, a qualitative change in feelings and relationships. In essence, everything that happens below the coition of the heart centres is a fall of kundalini into the lower worlds and spaces, with further distortion and addition of the partner's distortion programmes.
Outside the work of the open heart centre, love cannot happen between partners. There can only be a mutual negative compensatory union, which will eventually become debilitating and consuming for both parties, because there is no flow connecting to the heavens, but distorted flows going downwards and eventually to the dark layers of the unconscious.
It is important to understand that partners with disorders attract partners with disorders and this creates an aggravation of their states on the couple, they are able to transmit to each other the programmes of violation of kundalini movement.
When the energy of the libido force reaches the heart and the connection of the heart's work programmes meets in the partnership, there is an alchemical multiplication of this energy in both partners, an increase in its vibrations, a qualitative change in feelings and relationships. In essence, everything that happens below the coition of the heart centres is a fall of kundalini into the lower worlds and spaces, with further distortion and addition of the partner's distortion programmes.
Outside the work of the open heart centre, love cannot happen between partners. There can only be a mutual negative compensatory union, which will eventually become debilitating and consuming for both parties, because there is no flow connecting to the heavens, but distorted flows going downwards and eventually to the dark layers of the unconscious.
In the metaphorical world, such connections to the lower worlds are strengthened through the connection of two negatively charged partners without an open heart centre. Health, material and creative state deteriorates, there is no rise of kundalini to the higher centres of consciousness at the age of 46-48 years. Therefore, a person may feel exhausted, aging, empty and he does not give birth to higher mature spiritual ideas into this world, changing this world and higher worlds.
In nature at the age of 42 there should only be a philosophical crisis of the meanings of life, but not the breaking of all life. The scrapping of all life occurs when most of the kundalini flows have gone downward rather than upward. It is as if the universe refuses to give people who have not come to love and have not learnt love a grant to exist in a competitive world.
In nature at the age of 42 there should only be a philosophical crisis of the meanings of life, but not the breaking of all life. The scrapping of all life occurs when most of the kundalini flows have gone downward rather than upward. It is as if the universe refuses to give people who have not come to love and have not learnt love a grant to exist in a competitive world.
Partners who have been raising their kundalini energy to their heart without a couples relationship are more likely to reach the rise of their potential by the age of 50, because in this situation they conduct the power through their consciousness and retain it.
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